What are the best gift ideas for new college grads in your life? Cash is always appreciated, especially with that first student loan payment looming, but these might be better: *Your connections. (Building and nourishing a strong network should be an ongoing goal for all of us, and you can help out with a few thoughtful introductions.) *Your restraint. (Now is NOT the time to offload those dreadful platitudes about "Follow your passion!" and "Do what you love!" Resist, I beg of you.) *Your job leads. (Our chances of getting a job improve dramatically when we know someone on the inside. Keep your eyes open for opportunities for the new grads you know.) *Your perspective. (Someone's first job is only that: a starting point. It will not determine the rest of their career. It will pay the bills and get them valuable experience.) *Your commitment. (Make these new grads a valuable part of your network. Someday they may be happy to lend you a hand.) *Your confidence they'll land on their feet. (They don't need your anxiety; they're already in a panic. Strive to be a calming presence during a very intense and anxious time; that might be the best present of all.) …see more