Next time you say " Do you have any time to connect" , try this, "this is why we should chat and what I'm hoping for" I have lots of time. I can make time. Everyone has lots of time. EVERYONE. The secret is to explain why they should prioritize time with you, above time with friends, above time looking after yourself. I run out of social energy way before I run out of time. I run out of patience before I run out of time. …see more