How do you learn to NOT take things personally? There are some real gems in this TED Talk from actor and coach (and amateur football referee!) Frederik Imbo . But if you don't have time to listen to the whole thing, at least check out the final 1.5 minutes, which contain a powerful illustration. (It begins at the 16:15 mark in the video.) And if you don't even have time for that, here's the sound bite: "People may attack you, criticize you or ignore you. They can crumple you up with their words, spit you out or even walk all over you. But remember: Whatever they do or say... You will always keep your value." (Really, though, check out the link. Frederik's object lesson makes a much greater impact.) #emotionalintelligence #leadership #management #growthmindset #eqapplied #MakeEmotionsWorkForYouNotAgainstYou …see more